Remember those passionate, love, and laugh-filled nights?
Sex was fun and oh!!! so satisfying, filled with surprises, orgasms, and exquisite pleasures of touch, feel and taste. You made love through the night, in the morning, in the afternoon. Quickies after lunch and before dinner. Even sometimes against the wall as you were walking out the door for work.
Speaking of work! Here’s some homework for you and your lover. This homework is guaranteed to stoke your flames of Fire and Desire to 212 degrees Fahrenheit, 100 degrees Celsius…to boiling and beyond!
Here are 10 Ways to Spice up your Love life. 10 things you and your lover can do for, and to, each other, to enjoy your sexual playtime. These are ways to give the lover pleasure that binds them to you, have them eagerly anticipating your love encounters, and always ready for more.
You won’t want to leave the playpen!
1. Upon waking start your day with a sensual, loving kiss and touch. Initiate morning sex and or plant the psychological seeds for sex later in the day. (Note: keep a small bottle of water next to the bed in case you need to freshen up)
2. Phone your lover before they come home and tell them what you are going to do to them when they arrive. Make it vivid and verbally titillating.
3. Together create a list of new, untried, positions for you and your lover to choose from Scissors, The Cat, Waterfall, Hot Seat, Stairway to Heaven. Reverse Cowgirl, etc. Once created go down the list, try each position and then discuss which you like best and why. (Note: The Kamasutra has 100 sex positions)
4. Take turns teasing each other and see who can hold out the longest. Touching, kissing, sucking, but no penetration. Set a goal in your mind… with a minimum of 20 minutes. This can easily lead to an explosive lovemaking session.
5. Each partner writes the script for three sexual acts that they would like to do or have done to them. Read the script to each other and act out the scenes in detail. Perhaps each of you can edit the other’s script. Negotiate who plays which scene first. Stay on the script and in character thru the night, day, or week.
6. Draw on each other with soft crayons or other things that are suitable drawing materials: chocolate, berries, whipped cream, etc. Draw on breasts, stomachs, genitals, buttocks, backs, and other areas of sensuality and stimulation. Then nibble, kiss, suck, caress, those areas.
7. Dress for sex. Layer clothes that are elegant, beautiful, sexy, funny, surprising, or unexpected. Laughter is good during sex. Clothes can be removed slowly or quickly to reveal your treasures, depending on you and your partner’s moods.
8. Try role-playing and pretend you’ve just met. Ask for what you want and tell your partner why they should give you what you want immediately. Be persistent. Insist that your passions be satisfied now, at the moment. Make love in any available space or place.
9. Intensify your sexting game. Leave a message on your lover’s smartphone with you having an orgasm and calling their name.
10. Practice yoga breathing together. A huge factor in being able to orgasm is breathing. Breathing is difficult for many during sex. Syncing your breaths can build the intensity of your orgasms. First, sit naked and straddle your partner so you’re face to face without penetration. Close your eyes and focus on deep breathing. Softly stroking your partner is permissible. Do this for 20 minutes; deep breathing and soft strokes. After 20 minutes… all’s fair in Love.
Doing homework with your partner should be an enjoyable learning experience. When trying new things, sometimes discipline is necessary to stay focused, breakthrough old habits, and grow and improve your sexual encounters. Often new sexual activities are acquired taste. Your teamwork learning experience can provide excitement, renewal, new discoveries, and heighten pleasures and connection.
Reader, please comment below on the things you have found helpful to reclaim dynamic sexuality and pleasure with your loved one.
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